Published in Crow’s Feet·PinnedI’m Surrounded by CriticsOh, the joys of parenthood when your children feel they know what’s best for you. With a look of absolute horror in her rich, mahogany-colored eyes, my then 13-year-old daughter Lauren stared at me, mouth wide open. “You’re not going looking like THAT, are you?” The year was 1998, and…Critics3 min read
PinnedMiracles Happen — When We Allow Ourselves to BelieveJust because we age, especially in the final years, doesn’t mean we don’t dream for things to be better. We just need someone to help us believe it can happen. As I walked the hospice doctor to the front door, a question burned inside. Dad was entering the final phase…Hope And Belief4 min read
PinnedThe Precious CircleAs my mother told me the same story for the third time in two hours, I found myself sighing in frustration. What’s wrong with her? my forty-year-old mind hissed. It wasn’t like she had dementia. In fact, right up until her death, her brilliant mind was clear. …Aging Gracefully5 min read
PinnedRunning Out of TimeWith my head deep into the garbage can at the local 76 gas station and my rear end poised high in the air, I let out a wail. “Crap! How could I be so stupid? I don’t have time for this!” …Running Out Of Time4 min read
PinnedFeelings Aren’t FactsAs I walked by my bedroom, I noticed my mother doing something that made me stop and stare. With fingers strategically place on her forehead and cheeks, she tugged at the sagging skin as she examined her reflection in the mirror. In my sixteen-year-old mind, I thought, How strange. …Feelings Arent Facts4 min read
Published in ILLUMINATION·3 days agoHow to Cope With Unanswered Prayers-and learn to live with what the Universe wants for us instead“Now I lay me down to sleep. Bless Mommy and Daddy, make my brothers stop bugging me, and God, please, please, don’t let Elvis Presley marry anyone until I grow up! I promise to be a good girl forever.” In 1960, my first true love was the “King” himself, and…Divine Intervention3 min read
Published in Boomers, Bitches, and Babes·Jun 23When I Die, I Want to Come Back as My Children — but before I leave, I have some lessons still to teach.Waving goodbye to my daughters as they boarded a plane for three weeks on an all expenses paid trip to visit their brother in Barcelona, I couldn’t help but think, “I want to die and come back as my kids.” …Family5 min read
Published in ILLUMINATION·Apr 15Money Comes, Money Goes, but it’s the emphasis we put on it that makes all the difference“Crap, how do I pay all these bills this month,” I cried out loud, looking at my dwindling checkbook. A recent real estate deal I was working on wouldn’t close for another month, and my stocks had taken a horrific hit because of the mess our country, our world, was…Money Matters4 min read
Published in Boomers, Bitches, and Babes·Apr 11Trust Can Break Your Heart, But It Can Also Give Strength to the SoulWith the dramatic flair of a matador preparing to tease a raging bull, my twenty-year-old eyes gave a come-hither look as I waved my pink poodle skirt wildly. It was an evening I’d never forget. In 1972, I spread my theatrical wings in the musical Mame at the University of…Trust3 min read
Published in Boomers, Bitches, and Babes·Apr 9The Family Bed Holds More Than a Biological FamilyThis is a shoutout to all those who helped raise me In the early 1980s, my pediatrician urged my then-husband and me to never allow our children into our bed at night. It was deemed physically and emotionally unhealthy for all parties concerned. But as a woman who rarely did…Family3 min read